Anxiety Be Gone!

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Your hands sweat. Your mouth goes dry. Your heart beat triples. Your stomach clenches. You have an almost uncontrollable urge to run, run, run. All of these could indicate you are feeling stressed, stressed stressed.

Maybe you have to give a presentation or speech before a group of people. Maybe you are being recognized for an award or service. Maybe your spouse, significant other, or boss sent an email saying, “We need to talk”. Maybe you have a big test. Maybe you are a first time parent with a sick child. Or a dozen other things.

Stress and anxiety are actually the body’s way of protecting you.

The ‘fight or flight’ response that is ingrained in all humans from conception is responsible for keeping us safe from perceived harm. So the nervous and cognitive systems indicate to the brain danger! Danger! Danger! And the brain sends signals back to prepare to fight or flee.

The problem arises when your brain sends constant signals to your body to be in a state of anxiety. No one wants to feel stressed all the time! Life is meant to be enjoyed, not worried about. Here are some tips we hope will help you learn to manage anxiety in a natural way.

Train Your Brain

First be aware of what causes your anxiety. Is it speaking in front of people? Being in crowded rooms? Driving in rush hour traffic? What causes your anxiety levels to skyrocket? Once you know why, you can help prepare your brain to deal more effectively.

There is a saying that if you repeat something three times, your brain gets the hint and will follow. Try telling yourself (and your brain), “I am fine. It will pass soon. There’s no reason to panic. I can do this.” If your brain knows there’s an end to the stressor, it can help you deal more effectively.

Also, try focusing on something else. Count. Name the books on your home library shelf. Name your colors of the shirts you have. Think of baby names. Plan a dream get away. Give your brain something else to do besides concentrating on your anxiety.

Breathe the Breaths

We have all heard “slow down, take a deep breath” before. Maybe while trying to tell a story or when someone we trust can see we are growing more and more anxious. They are trying to help us manage the ‘flight or fight’ response.

Think about all the organs and body systems that help us breathe. Our nose, our lungs, even our heart helps us draw in the air we need to continue to live. See the air entering your nose, traveling down to your lungs, then to your heart and blood stream.

Deep breathing really does help with anxiety. It forces your body and brain to focus on something besides the anxiety (as mentioned above) and also to physically do something. Try the one deep breath in, hold 5 seconds, and release. It may take a few moments to build up to this, so if five is too long, try three.

Stop Obsessing!

This is perhaps the hardest one. Our imagination and thoughts somehow love to try to terrify us. It’s so much easier to think of what could go wrong rather than picture what could go right. What we envision happening is almost always worse than what actually is.

Start telling your imagination and wayward thoughts, “No!” when they start down the anxiety path. Don’t give in to the images of doom and failure that often accompany anxiety. Replace them with something better, calming and more likely to help you focus on the positive instead of the negative. There is truth to ‘mind over matter’. If you mind believes you are safe and calm, your body will not react to anxiety. You will feel relaxed.

Go to ‘your happy place’, that mind’s eye image you hold of a place special, safe, and secure to you. This may be a flower filled meadow or a sand chair on a sunny beach in front of frothy, gently rolling ocean waves. Or maybe it’s a cool mountain lake, a library, the bakery, a coffee café, or a shoe sale at your favorite store. Immerse yourself in this place. Feel it, smell it, see every detail, hear the tiniest of sounds, and taste the most delicate of flavors.

There are several guided hypnosis sessions available on this website which can help you achieve this peace and calm you need to combat the overwhelming anxiety. We can help you find your ‘happy place’ and teach your mind to go there when anxiety symptoms begin to affect you. This natural way of maintain your composure can be used every time you feel anxiety, in any place, time, and needs no other materials than your mind.

Try Freedom from Fear and Anxiety and Stop Overwhelm to retrain your brain to feel the way you CAN feel…calm and relaxed.  Freedom from Fear and Anxiety trains your subconscious mind to automatically shift into a more relaxed state whenever those first signs of anxiety begin to build. These audios are the perfect compliment to build your skills to handle anxiety naturally.

With practice, these tips, and hypnosis, will help you decrease your anxiety levels in a safe, natural way. You can do this!

2 thoughts on “Anxiety Be Gone!

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    The demand the society places on us is enough reason to fall into anxiety. But really our lives are not meant to be patterned according to the dictates of others.

    • at

      Hi Nathan, I agree with your wisdom. If everyone felt that way and truly lived by it, while making sure not to hurt anyone, the world would be a better place. Thanks for your comments!


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